Let’s be honest: moving to Switzerland can feel a little... quiet. The views are breathtaking, the public transport is flawless, and the streets are clean enough to eat raclette off of.
But finding your people? That takes work.
This isn’t a country where strangers strike up conversations in supermarkets. Social circles often form early, and stay closed. If you're used to spontaneous meetups and chatty baristas, Swiss social life might feel a bit like a locked garden. But here’s the good news: there is a key. Actually, a few.
Join Something (Even If It Feels Awkward)
The fastest way to meet people in Switzerland is to sign up. For anything. Language classes, hiking groups, pottery nights, yoga in the park, coding meetups, book clubs, board game cafés, open mics, even improv classes. Yes, even if you hate improv. The goal is shared time.
Look for Facebook groups like “Expats in Your City” or “Your City Hiking & Outdoors.” Apps like Meetup, Eventbrite, or Internations can help too. Local libraries and cultural centers often post community events, and even small towns have Vereins (clubs) for nearly every hobby.
Where to Meet People Casually
You don’t have to become a clubber to have a social life. Switzerland has a thriving scene of cozy, low-key events that make it easy to connect. Think pub quizzes, storytelling nights, language tandems, comedy stand-ups, flea markets, small art festivals, and even karaoke. Pick the ones that match your energy.
Many of these events are advertised in local Facebook groups or on platforms like Meetup. And remember, you don’t have to go with a friend, most people attending are open to meeting new people. You just have to show up.
Don’t Wait for the Swiss to Make the First Move
This isn’t personal. Swiss culture values privacy and independence, and many locals simply don’t feel comfortable being the one to approach. But once the ice is broken, friendships can run deep. So yes, you might need to be the one who says, "Want to grab coffee sometime?" a few times. It’s worth it.
Start With Shared Situations
You’re a new parent? Find a parent group. You’re a freelancer? Look for a coworking community or expat business circle. You’re single in your 30s? Try a board game night or a hiking day trip. Shared situations lower the barrier and make small talk a lot less painful.
Belonging Starts Slowly
Don’t beat yourself up if it takes time. Most expats go through a phase where they feel disconnected, even if their Instagram says otherwise. That quiet coffee with one new person counts. That awkward hike where nobody talked much? Still progress.
Switzerland might not make friendship easy at first, but it does make it meaningful.
And if you're looking for a friendly corner of the internet to organize meetups, ask questions, share tips, or just feel a little less alone, we'd love to have you in the Swiss Ready Telegram community.
It’s a small but growing space where expats like you connect, vent, and celebrate the small wins of Swiss life. Come say hi.